CardamomOpens with
MimosaHeart
VanillaDries down to
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Phlur · Sold as unisex
Not Your Baby
The cozy corner of an apartment where soft cushions and scented candles create a sanctuary from the outside world, inviting you to relax and unwind.
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Not Your BabyMid-range · $40–100
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The story behind the bottle.
Not Your Baby by Phlur, launched in 2022 and crafted by Jérôme Epinette, is an Oriental Floral fragrance that defies expectations with its complex blend of powdery warmth and unexpected spiciness. The composition opens with a bright burst of bergamot and cardamom before settling into the heart of mimosa and violet, creating a delicate floral sweetness. As it evolves on the skin, vanilla and tonka bean mingle with sandalwood to create a warm, enveloping base that is both comforting and intriguing.
Apply this fragrance lightly — its powdery and spicy notes build on skin over time. A single spritz is enough for daytime wear; it pairs well with warmer indoor environments but can read as too enveloping in open air or during summer evenings.
Fig. 01 — Not Your Baby, Phlur
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Jérôme Epinette
The hand behind ByredoJérôme Epinette is a French perfumer born and raised in Burgundy who earned a Master's degree in Biochemistry before training at the Grasse Institute of Perfumery.
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A polarising scent: loved by 24%, disliked or hated by 26%.