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DS&Durga · Sold as unisex
You Kill Me With Silence
The hush before a pivotal conversation, where every breath is tinged with anticipation and the subtle warmth of incense.
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You Kill Me With SilencePremium · $100–250
46%Similar accords, often for lessKhurafi · Lattafa PerfumesBudget tier, under $40 · shares incense and woody notes8 matches →How it wears
From community votes · bars are each option's shareComposition & Character
The story behind the bottle.
Launched in 2018, You Kill Me With Silence by DS&Durga is a composition that captures the essence of quiet intensity. Created by perfumer David Seth Moltz, this unisex fragrance opens with smoky and fresh notes that create an intriguing contrast, leading to a heart of citrus and balsamic accords that add warmth and depth. The base layers of woody and warm spicy elements ground the scent, making it feel both intimate and expansive.
Apply this fragrance in light layers — it blooms gradually and builds on skin over time. It's perfect for evening wear when you want a scent that evolves as the night progresses.
Fig. 01 — You Kill Me With Silence, DS&Durga
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David Seth Moltz
Unusual landscapes, forgotten historiesS. & Durga in 2008. His fragrances tell stories of specific, often overlooked moments in time and place, such as El Cosmico, created for a trailer and teepee campsite in the high desert of West Texas.
Designer DS&Durga
More from the house · founded 2007 · United States
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The originalYou Kill Me With SilenceDS&Durga · Premium · $100–250Lattafa PerfumesKhurafiShares Incense and Woody notesunder $40★ 4.27 (188)47%Match
Lattafa PerfumesNight OudShares Incense and Woody notesunder $40★ 4.05 (79)49%Match
Lattafa PerfumesRoyal Highness GoldShares Incense and Woody notesunder $40★ 3.57 (7)46%Match
Lattafa PerfumesMusk AndalusiShares Incense and Woody notesunder $40★ 4.00 (9)
With DS&Durga King Majesty Bergamot Chypre
Adds fresh spicy, earthy and patchouli; shares three accords.
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What people
are saying.
Warmly received so far: loved by 71%, disliked or hated by 0%.